The Rife Family

Visit from Caitlin

2011-05-27T22:05:00.001-07:00

Jackson and I were so blessed this past week to have my dear friend, since 6th grade, come and visit us in San Diego. Caitlin was accepted into the UW's program to become a Family Nurse Practitioner and will begin this June, but has been an acitve RN in the San Francisco area for the past 4 years. Before starting classes in Seattle next month, she made the time to visit Jackson and I and Jackson and I were so blessed with her visit! Unfortunately, Jackson came down with Hand-Foot-and-Mouth-Disease this week (a virus with high fevers and blisters in the mouth, hands and feet) so Caitlin and I dosed him up with Motrin and Tylenol and wrapped him up in a blanket in the stroller and did all of the stuff we planned to do anyways. We got a sitter one night and saw Bridesmaids (HILARIOUS!!!) and had sushi. She was a huge help with Jackson and I think the most amazing part of the visit, the part I wasn't expecting, was her appreciation for all that I do. She was amazed at how much work it is to be a mom and take care of a house and it felt great to know that it's not all just in my head :) She was encouraging to me and loving to Jackson and he fell madly in love with his Auntie Cait-Cait, and why wouldn't he? It was a lovely week and ten times whatever I was expecting. We wish you the beset Caitlin! See you in Seattle soon. XOXOXO

Girls-Night Out with Sushi at Valentino's- YUMMMM.

At the Del Coronado.

Beach-Time!

Enjoying Mexican food in Old Town.

Jackson Turned 3, and Daddy Left on Deployment

2011-05-27T16:18:00.000-07:00

In mid-April, Matt left for a six-month deployment on board the USS Howard (Facebook Page for the Howard). I was very sad as Jackson and I drove away from the pier and the tears poured down my cheeks as I attempted to hiccup back my sadness on the 805-South, but Jackson was more worried about me than his Daddy leaving. He just kept thinking "Daddy was on duty". The day after the ship left, Jackson and I flew to Seattle to visit with our families and friends. It was a nice distraction from Daddy leaving, and we were able to celebrate Jackson's 3rd birthday with his grandparents with a pirate-themed birthday party. Jackson is still dressing up as a pirate and running around the house shouting, "Argggg Matey!" When we came home from Seattle to San Diego, Jackson was shocked that Daddy was still gone- thus began the most difficult transition we've ever been through. No sugar-coating here folks, it has been tough. I truly believe that it wouldn't be this tough, if Jackson and his Daddy weren't so close and if Matt wasn't such an amazing father. Deployment seems to be going faster than it has in the past, mostly because I'm running after Jackson all the time, and driving him from soccer, to church, to Bible Study, to park play-dates, to Sea World, etc. I have included some pictures of the last month for you all to enjoy.

Daddy & Jackson the weekend before deployment (Daddy is a little teary:)

Matt and I at an impromptu going-away party some of his dear friends from his Men's Group organized. We were blessed with good friends and prayer over Matt that evening.

Matt got Jackson this large world map for his bedroom wall. We have special stickers we use to mark where Daddy goes.

Jackson and I went to the Chula Vista fire-station pancake breakfast and he got to climb into the fire-trucks and examine all the parts. He was in heaven!!

We are so proud of our Chief!

Jackson and I got to visit Bapa at his office downtown Seattle one day for lunch.

All of the friends and family who blessed us for Jackson's birthday celebration in Seattle.

Pirate cupcakes :)

Mom Sheri, Poppy Ron and Jackson

Easter Morning

Jackson and Noey

Mama Always Told Me There'd Be Days Like This...

2011-03-02T22:27:00.000-08:00

I'm not sure at what point in our young lives we start making memories that are imprinted upon us, ones we can search for in the back of our minds and pull out for future references that is. I do know that one of my earliest memories was when I was 3 or 4 years old and I woke up in the middle of the night, being cradled in my mother's arms as she rocked me in our old rocking-chair. I do not remember her shortness with me earlier in the day, or her harsh words, or what I had done to irritate her in the first place, or even what consequence I endured later, but I vividly remember her tears and her asking me for forgiveness. I remember my mother teaching me humility and it was one of the most valuable lessons I ever learned to this date. During my school-aged days I could never hold a grudge for very long and my parents would sometimes become frustrated because I would let the same friends hurt me over and over again, but I always forgave. Perhaps it was my desire to "...turn the other cheek," Matthew 5:39, but I truly believe it was because my mother taught me the importance of forgiving and asking for forgiveness. You see, when you ask someone else for forgiveness, you are the one being set free.

We are currently learning the lessons of humility and forgiveness in the Rife household. My son can be the most irritating little creature God ever blessed me with, at times. He constantly nags, cries, whines, manipulates, pouts and throws tantrums that are overly-dramatic and more for show than anything else, and for all of these reasons and more I can become irritated with him. I sometimes speak harshly, or shamefully roll my eyes at his wild antics, but I learned early on to ask for forgiveness, and so I ask for his almost daily. It is extremely humbling to ask a two-year-old for forgiveness for your own childish ways, but it is oh so rewarding to hear a sweet voice from the backseat of the car say, "I fo fowwy mommy." on his own accord after throwing his fruit-snacks at you. At two years old he has already found freedom in forgiveness, and at thirty years old, I am still learning the power in it.

We're All Growing and Learning

2011-02-10T20:17:00.000-08:00

Matt was underway (gone at sea) this week and I, for some reason, took that to be a perfect time to potty-train Jackson. Granted, all the parenting books say to avoid transitional times and that you should stay home for two-weeks straight to help your little one learn to listen to his body, but instead I took him to Sea World on Day 1 of our big attempt! Then on Day 3 I took him to the Zoo, in our brand new stroller! At one point I was carrying Jackson under one arm, pushing the stroller and running through a crowded monkey-observation-exhibit, all the while screaming, "Pee-pee emergency! Pee-pee emergency!" People without kids rolled their eyes as they had to dodge me, while others with young children smiled knowingly or chuckled at how ridiculous I looked. Either way, we stayed dry through both trips, and I do mean we as I later told my grandmother over email, "He may be learning, but I am being schooled through all of this!"

I had been interested in potty-training Jackson for over six-months, but the fact remained that he was not ready yet, and the Lord used this time to teach me patience. My least favorite fruit of the Spirit to learn, but always a lesson well-learned when it's over. It may seem silly that God would use something as insignificant as "poopoo and peepee" to help me learn how little control I truly have, but I thought it quite applicable and appropriate. After all, "stuff" happens and how are we going to react when it does? Are we going to scream and throw a tantrum and shake our fist in anger? Or are we going to take a deep breath and have another go? God doesn't give up on us when we miss our goal or forget to listen to the signs, just as we don't give up on our little children when they are learning something new. To God, I may as well be a two-year-old-potty-training-Ninja, because I have plenty of accidents and need just as much hand-holding through life.

"Action Jackson Visits Santa"

2010-12-16T20:42:00.001-08:00

We were lucky enough for Matt to have a day off of work last week (something that never happens!) and so we made it a family Christmas extravaganza and all went to Disneyland for the day! It was crazy busy, but so much fun! We visited Disneyland and California Adventure and both places were decked for Christmas. Small World was totally transformed, which was exciting for Jackson and I since we frequent Disneyland every 3-5 weeks.

This Christmas has been especially memorable for our family since we are putting a tree up in our own home for the first time in three years! Jackson is at that age where everything excites him about the holidays and he makes everything even more joyful. He has taught himself all the words to Jingle Bells (Tinkle Bells when he sings it...) and Rudolph as well as all the songs from Curious George's Merry Christmas special. He loves looking for "God's Baby Jesus" in all of the nativity scenes that are set up for the holiday. It's amazing how much fun two can be!

Last year we visited Santa and had a total meltdown from Jackson as he was asked to sit on a strangers lap with a beard and crazy red suit. This year he marched right up to the big guy and gave him a hug and then said, "I good! I obey! I need toys!" This guy is getting the feel for this whole Christmas thing for sure.

I hope your Holidays are going well!

My Little Athlete

2010-11-08T22:01:00.001-08:00

Jackson had his first soccer practice with his new team, The Hot Shots. It's through the YMCA and is the first step to providing structured and guided play. Excuse the rough cinematography, but it ended up being a lot more "hands-on" than I was expecting. I'm not complaining, it was a blast! Hope this provides as much laughter for you as it did for me!

-Nicole

October Update

2010-11-02T22:45:00.000-07:00

October was a busy and crazy month for Team Rife! Matt has spent the better part of the month underway, serving our nation :). I turned 30 years old on October 6th! A milestone for sure. Since Matt was gone, Jackson and decided to "leave on a jetplane" and head up to Seattle for a couple of weeks. We had a lovely time visiting with some family and friends, and then my mom came back with us for two weeks in San Diego. My dad was able to fly down for Halloween weekend which was an extremely fun time! Jackson spent the better part of the month dressed up as Buzz Lightyear, which makes me feel like we got our money's worth out of the costume :) Jackson, Nama and I were able to make a trip to the San Diego Zoo, a trip to Sea World and a trip to Disnyland/California Adventure! I am providing the link for October and the first part of November on snapfish.com so that you all can see the pictures of our time together. It's true that a picture is worth a thousand words, and definitely tells more of a story than I could ever do justice to. I will be sure to try and keep this updated more so during November, as we have plans to see some of the Dime Family in Palm Springs over Thanksgiving, not to mention the reunion Jackson and I are anxiously awaiting for Matt's arrival home. He is greatly missed. This is the longest time Jackson has been away from his Daddy before and he is definitely showing signs of reacting.

We hope everyone is well!

Wish Love,

The Rife Family

Link for October Album (copy and paste into your browser if it doesn't automatically link)

http://www2.snapfish.com/snapfish/thumbnailshare/AlbumID=5080497009/a=58660421_58660421/otsc=SHR/otsi=SALBlink/COBRAND_NAME=snapfish/

Link for Disneyland Trip, November 1st:

http://www2.snapfish.com/snapfish/thumbnailshare/AlbumID=5176476009/a=58660421_58660421/otsc=SHR/otsi=SALBlink/COBRAND_NAME=snapfish/

Jackson & Boe (Robin and Optimus Prime)

Blowing Out My Candles

Buzz and his BaPa

Buzz and his Uncle Chad

Celebrated my 30th with some of my best friends since 6th grade. Jeni, Me, Caitlin & Amy

Each Day Brings New Experiences

2010-07-01T09:51:00.000-07:00

Today marked an eventful day. It will probably seem silly to most of you, and those of you without children will have a tough time figuring out why I mention this at all, but today was a big day for Jackson and I.

So... this morning, Jackson got on the big boy swing next to me on my own swing! He held on for twenty minutes while I continued make him "Go more high!" It was such a fun morning with just me and my boy. There weren't two happier people in all of Eastlake. I hope all of you had an equally lovely Thursday. XOXOXO

The Month of May Was Good to Us

2010-06-27T08:37:00.000-07:00

May was busy and exciting at our home. Jackson turned two-years-old and so Nama Paula & BaPa Lar came down to San Diego to celebrate. As a bonus treat, Uncle Josh, Aunt Nette and Boe came too! We got to celebrate Jackson's birthday with a big party in the park and Mother's Day dinner at our house that same evening.

We all made the drive out to Disneyland one morning- so fun!

BaPa, Jackson & Boe at Small World

Jackson and Daddy on the Nemo Submarine Ride

Seeing Mickey Mouse never seems to get old.

Jackson didn't fell asleep on his Nama Paula during the Haunted House in Disneyland.

We also made a trip out to Legoland while everyone was here. Boe and Jackson had a blast playing together.

These two rode the Duplo Lego Train over and over!

They had a water part to play in- the boys were in heaven!

Jackson and BaPa on the Wild Safari Legoland Ride

Lego-Lion

BaPa took Boe and Jackson on the Lego Boat ride and later told us that it was the longest twenty minutes of his life. The boys are actually steering this boat and they kept turning around and getting stuck against the wall. I was laughing the whole time.

BaPa reading a bedtime story to Jackson.

Good morning Birthday Boy!

Boe helped Jackson learn how to open his birthday presents- thanks Boe!

Mommy & Daddy got Jackson an outfit to cook in his new kitchen from Nama & Bapa. Jackson kept running around saying, "Ratatouille!"

The kids all "decorated" pretend cupcakes by Melissa & Doug Toys.

We went to Noah's birthday party two weeks later and Jackson was very confused why he couldn't open these presents. We tried to explain to him that it's not always "Jackson's Birthday".

Happy Birthday Noah!

It was definitely another blessed month for The Rifes!

San Diego = Finally Home

2010-06-26T21:13:00.000-07:00

Mommy & Jackson

Father's Day Morning with Daddy

We have made San Diego home! It was only a matter of time, but thanks to our new church we have made friends who have become our family here. I joined a Mom's Group that Jackson and I go to on Wednesday mornings and we both joined a Married Couples Group that we go to on Sunday nights.

Last week my dear friend Kalee came from Seattle to visit

and she brought her sweet little Noelle with her. It was interesting watching Jackson learn to share his toys and time with a little one... he's still got some room to grow :) We went to the San Diego Wild Animal Park, Sea World and Old Town, not to mention to the days spent swimming in our community pool.

Jackson, Me, Kalee & Noelle

Beautiful Noey & Kalee

Jackson making faces at Noelle

Jackson and Noelle didn't even make it out of the parking lot after a long day at Sea World

Jackson is now jumping into the pool without anyone catching him! He loves to swim for hours with his little orange swimming floaties. We call him our little fish and he laughs and says, "Like Nemo!"

Besos = Kisses

This week a friend of mine from Chicago happened to be visiting San Diego and she made time in her schedule to visit with Jackson and I. We went to the San Diego Zoo and then to Old Town for authentic Mexican cuisine and margaritas :) Yummmm! Lindsey and Keith were the perfect tourists and made it a very fun week. We were lucky to have Mary's visit overlap theirs a little bit and we all got to enjoy one anothers company for one day.

Jackson and Lindsey at the Jaguar exhibit at the San Diego Zoo

Jackson, Nana Mary & Me in Old Town, San Diego

Lindsey & Keith in Old Town

Family Picture on Naval Station San Diego

We even went down to the base to see a few of the ships and Matt gave us the Chief's Tour.

Jackson got to see the Naval Station Fire Department and sit in their fire truck (his newest obsession is fire trucks!) It was a dream come true for this two year old.

We got a chance to head to the beach on Coronado Island this weekend with Nana Mary and our Espinoza Family. Matt got us onto the Naval Base and we were lucky to be able to use that beach. It was a little cloudy for what we're used to, but that doesn't mean we couldn't play in the sand all day!

Ella, Noah and Jackson

Gabe and Matt built a sandcastle... for the kids. Sure.

We tried the water a little, but Jackson was knocked down once and that was enough to drive him to the arms of his Nana Mary. She didn't seem to mind...

Getting warm in Nana Mary's arms

Saturday night we went to church and then out to dinner at a spot we hadn't tried before called "Smokin' Pete's BBQ". It was yummy!

Jackson and his Nana Mary

Out to dinner

Still got it.... :)

Jackson and I are making the trip up to Seattle next month. We can't wait to see many of you. You know how busy our time is when we're home, and we're sharing it between grandparents, Mukilteo and Kirkland and a week in Sun River, OR as well. I hope to post more in the next week.

Hugs to everyone!

-Nicole

Happy Father's Day!

2010-06-20T09:04:00.000-07:00

Happy Father's Day from The Rife's!

Jackson wanted to wish his grandfathers a Happy Father's Day, so here are two short video clips we took this morning. He is a little silly :), but that's our boy!

Thanks to all of you Dads out there today. Your job(s) does not go unnoticed and we love you!

Love,

Nicole

Happy Father's Day BaPa Lar-

Happy Father's Day Papa Keith-

Celebrating Jackson a Little Early

2010-04-26T19:37:00.000-07:00

Nana Mary and Papa Keith came to San Diego in April for Nana's Spring Break from school and we got to celebrate Jackson's birthday a little early! We had fun decorating and celebrating with all Lightning McQueen decorations!

Two candles for a very special two-year-old (almost...)

Jackson got a new car from Nana Mary and Papa Keith- it has a horn that honks and a radio that plays music! Mommy loves the flexible handle.

Close enough to two-years-old that I can throw a tantrum like one!

Saying thank you to Jesus for our food...

Me and Ella at Sea World

Samantha and I with all 4 kids (she's wearing one and Ella is peeking out from behind Noah) at California Adventure

California Adventure with Nana Mary, Papa Keith, Mickey, Jackson, Daddy & Mommy

Jackson would only wear his new Mickey ears if we put it on top of his ball-cap. He's very opinionated at two :)

Spring

2010-04-05T20:37:00.000-07:00

Happy Spring! We have been busy taking in all of the sunshine and new friends in San Diego! In March, Jackson and I went to Disneyland for his first time. We had a blast and made many wonderful memories.

Jackson and I also had a wonderful chance (thanks to Bapa Lar!) to go back to Chicago for a very quick visit to see friends. We were so blessed!

Nana and Papa came in for Easter weekend and we celebrated all weekend long! Baskets, eggs and candy, and of course my favorite memory of the weekend was when Jackson ran into church yelling (with his hands raised for emphasis): "He is risen! He is risen!" What a fun time! We were surprised by an earthquake at Easter dinner over at our friends house, but everything was fine in the end. We are so blessed.

I hope everyone is well!

With all our love,

Nicole, Matt & Jackson

Loving San Diego

2010-02-22T13:07:00.000-08:00

Jackson and Daddy before a walk on Sunday.

Jackson enjoying his Nana Paula :)

Thanks to Matt's Uncle Dan-O for sending me this link of today's Herald. What a proud wife I am! Check it out: HeraldNet.

Well, we've been in San Diego for three weeks now and it is finally slowing down a little. We love our church (Eastlake Church) and I have even gotten involved in a Mom's Group every Wednesday where I can have fellowship with other stay-at-home-moms and more importantly, Jackson gets to play with other kids. Jackson and I walk every morning with our new friends, Samantha and her beautiful children Ella and Noah and we are awaiting the arrival of Stephen any day now! It's great to have friends already in a place that feels more and more like "home" each day.

New Home

2010-02-10T21:52:00.001-08:00

We are all finally in San Diego together! How wonderful to be a family and be together again. Matt and I worked on painting and prepping the home two days before my parents flew down with Jackson. Matt and Jackson hadn't seen one another in over a month and their reunion was beautiful. Jackson wouldn't leave his daddy's arms and was carried all around the San Diego International Airport. Their love for one another is so strong! :)

Here are some pictures of our new townhome as we continue to get it set up the way we like it. It's starting to really feel like home as the walls get painted, the furniture gets placed, and the pictures get put on the walls. Jackson is finally sleeping through the night again and taking regular naps. We are loving the 60 degrees weather and the meals eaten together.

Jackson's new room is all about transportation. He loves BIG trucks and cars that zoom!

This is our kitchen.

Jackson loves reading in his reading chair in his room.

I found this adorable little table and chairs on craigslist. Would you believe that it was lemon/lime green with bahama fabric on the seats when I bought it? Nothing a couple cans of black spray paint and a trip to JoAnn's Fabric couldn't fix!

Happy New Year!

2010-01-01T20:22:00.000-08:00

We have had a very busy past couple of months! In August, Matt made Chief and in late September we decided to extend our time with the Navy and reenlisted! Two weeks ago I left my position teaching Kindergarten in Skokie, IL so that Jackson and I could follow Matt to our new orders in San Diego, CA! Jackson and I are living in Seattle with our families until Matt finds a new home for us, and we are grateful for the extra time with our friends and family in Seattle. It was painfully difficult to say goodbye to all of the wonderful friends we have made over the past three and a half years, but such is the life of a Navy Family. We are excited to meet our new friends and make our new adventures in San Diego. We are determined to life life together, however we can do it.

I put together a small compilation of our Holiday Season in Seattle for your viewing.

Happy New Year!

Love,

Nicole, Matt & Jackson

Make a Smilebox greeting

Merry Christmas!

2009-12-22T15:09:00.000-08:00

Merry Christmas!

We are all safely in Seattle for the Holiday Season. We were sad to say goodbye to Chicago, but we're all excited to see what God has in store for San Diego.

All our Love,

Matt, Nicole & Jackson

P.S. Jackson wasn't having any of Santa this year- oh noooooo. It was pretty funny actually, but not for him. :)

Big Changes for the Rife's

2009-10-26T18:49:00.000-07:00

This has been an amazing past couple of months for us. We have been tested and blessed so much. On October 18th, Matt decided to get baptized

up at the Great Lakes Church in Kenosha, WI. Our dear friend, Dave Nelson, was the person who baptized Matt and we were so blessed to be able to

have him do the honors. I got most of the baptism on video, but bear with me and the poor cinematography.

After prayer, discussion and weighing the pros and cons, Matt and I have decided to continue with our service in the US Navy. I say "our" service

, because I have been and will continue to be alongside Matt for each step of his journey in the Navy. We have taken orders to San Diego in

December and because of the last minute decision to continue with the military, we were not given much time between signing orders and moving. I

had to give my notice for the middle of the school year at the school that I have made my home for the past three years. I love teaching at Madison

School and I will miss it so much, but I know that the best decision is for Jackson and I to follow Matt wherever he goes. After Matt made Chief in

September, it was too much to walk away from, and we really had to look at how we could best provide for our family in the future. With the economy

the way it has been lately, we couldn't put our hopes in Matt getting a job in the civilian world. While the decision was a difficult one to make, and I am

so sad to leave my home of Chicago, we both are at peace and know that we are trusting in what the Lord has to offer for our lives. Please continue

to pray for us and all of the transitions we have in the next few months.

Following the Rife's on YouTube

2009-09-28T19:05:00.001-07:00

Hello Again All- We continue to use our amazing digital camcorder and I want to give everyone the option of viewing them all or only a select few. Here is the link for my channel on youtube (copy and paste this into your browser):

http://www.youtube.com/user/nikahrife

You can "subscribe" to it, which will let you know when I upload new videos, therefor you don't have to check all the time. I hope this is helpful to some, or all.

We are uploading videos of playing with Jackson as I type. So glad to have a MacBook!! :)

Love to all,

Nicole, Matt & Jackson

Videos of the Rife Family

2009-09-27T18:00:00.000-07:00

Here are a few videos of our life lately. Jackson has been a delight, learning to say more words and do more things on his own. Matt finished up the six-week long Season to be initiated into the Chief's Mess of the US Navy and I thought we would share some of these things with all of you.

My user name on youtube.com is 'nikahrife'. There are lots of videos on there as well.

As Promised...

2009-08-21T09:14:00.001-07:00

Here are a few more pictures of our summer. I didn't have access to all of my pictures last night. A new hit at our place this summer has been the Snuggie. I used one at my mom and dad's house in Seattle and had to get one right away. It might be warm here in Chicago, but Matt keeps the house CHILLY so I've used it all summer. I've included a pic of Matt and I on the couch with my Snuggie on. It provides such versatility, as you can see, I'm able to change the channel on the TV, blog on my laptop and be near my Sweetie. Awesome.

:) Nicole

Busy Lives

2009-08-20T18:46:00.001-07:00

Hello Everyone! We are back for a quick update. The Rife Family has been very busy this past couple of months. We all visited Sun River, OR for a week with G-Pa and G-Ma Dime, Uncle Josh and Aunt Nette and then Jackson and I stayed for another week in Seattle to see some more family. Grandma Binkley flew back to Chicago with us and stayed for three weeks, completing July for us. It was a WONDERFUL visit and we are still talking about "Gramma" (one of Jackson's many new words). I went back to meet Kindergartners at the end of July and fell full-time into the school year first week of August. Monday will be my first Institute Day with my colleagues and Wednesday will be the official first day of school. I am posting a link for my Snapfish.com album with a few pictures of my classroom for this Fall. I applied for a technology grant in May and was approved to have a SMART Board installed into my classroom. I've been hard at work creating interactive lessons that I can share with my Kindergartners this year. What a fabulous resource!

I can't believe how fast the summer goes with a toddler under your feet. Jackson learned to walk and now run in July, and he is learning new words each day.

As if we couldn't feel blessed enough, Matt made Chief at the end of July. We have been planning to exit from the Navy in November of this year, but with very few jobs available right now, and such a huge promotion... we are starting to think twice about that decision.

Enjoy a few pictures of our busy life and hopefully I'll be more diligent with keeping it updated in the future.

SNAPFISH ALBUM: http://www2.snapfish.com/thumbnailshare/AlbumID=1844903009/a=58660421_58660421/otsc=SHR/otsi=SALBlink/COBRAND_NAME=snapfish/All our love,

Nicole, Matt & Jackson

June with the Rife's

2009-06-15T20:11:00.000-07:00

Next month we will be in Seattle and Sun River, Oregon. I thought I would share a few of the videos of our life together here in Chicago. They are rather uneventful, but full of joy, laughter and blessings.

We miss you all.

Jackson Turned 1!

2009-06-15T20:02:00.001-07:00

I'm sorry it's taken me so long to get back on the blog, but my life pretty much stops from late May to early June as I wait for the end of the school year. Now I am officially a "stay-at-home-mommy" for the next six weeks before I go back to work in August. I am loving each day with my sweet Boo, but I'm also seeing WHY this is considered a full-time job of it's own!

On May 9th we had Jackson's first birthday party. It was a monumental event and Jackson loved the chance to play with some of the other kids. We were so touched by the outpouring and love that everyone showed. Mom and Dad made the trip out from Seattle, but even if they hadn't, we would have known how loved we are from all of our "Chicago Family". Here are a couple of short videos of Jackson's first birthday. One is of him eating his gluten-free eclaire, but he wasn't all that fond of it so we just gave him watermelon instead. The other one is of Jackson opening some of his gifts and his friend Olivia giving him a hand. Enjoy!

Visiting Seattle

2009-04-13T08:28:00.000-07:00

Hello All! I have been extremely busy lately and haven't had time to sit down and update the blog since coming back from our visit to Seattle last month. Jackson and I traveled alone for the first time and it was quite an experience. We were blessed to have met Kathie on our flight to Seattle- she is truly our United Airlines Angel. She sat next to J and I and helped me tremendously with a fussy baby on the long flight. I was almost in tears but she helped calm everyone (including me) down. Here is a picture of J on Kathie's lap (unfortunately Kathie didn't get in the picture herself).
Jackson and I did the best we could to see everyone, but as always it seemed like the time was too short. I was able to surprise Bethus at her bridal shower- that was a treat!

Jackson really enjoyed his time with his new cousin, Boe. He was laughing and crawling all over the place at G-ma and G-pa's house. Boe is so gentle with Jackson and truly loves him. We visited Picnic Point to see some of my friends. It was so nice! Jackson got to read a story with Joy and of course he cuddled with Fiona. We visited with Matt's family as well and then left in as big a hurry as we had arrived. Jackson has been very sick this week with some sort of a virus. High fever, vomiting, a horrible cough and of all things... pink eye! :( It's been a long week. I hope to have a little more free time next week and hopefully a healthy baby. All our love,
Nicole, Matt & Jackso n

Happy Easter! :)

2009-04-12T14:39:00.001-07:00

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The Ultimate Gift

2009-04-10T07:56:00.000-07:00

This is the first Easter Sunday since I became a mother last May. I see the holiday in a different light this year. While I have always been emotionally touched by God the Father's gift of His son for our salvation, I now see the price that Jesus' mother Mary gave as well. I look at my sweet Jackson and I cannot believe that some day he will be a man. I cannot imagine the pain Mary felt as she watched her beloved boy go through his persecution and death. I pray that you have a wonderful Easter and reflect on the ultimate gift we were given. God bless.

Love,

Nicole

First Visit to the Park!

2009-03-15T18:51:00.000-07:00

Today we took Jackson to the park for the first time! It was so much fun watching him giggle (and cry) with all of the new adventures experienced. We tried the swing and the slide. Jackson was talking and looking at everything on the way to the park. He used to sleep, but he is a little man now, and not an infant any longer.

Update from the Rife's

2009-03-15T17:21:00.000-07:00

We've been very busy this past month at the Rife household. I'm getting ready to take Jackson home (Seattle) with me on March 21st for a week. It's my spring break from school and the airline tickets were too cheap to pass up. Then the two of us will be back in April for Bethany's wedding. Can't wait for that! Jackson is eating everything in sight (while still avoiding dairy, wheat and sugar) and he's eager to play with all of the toys that are quickly becoming our new home decor. We are loving being parents and can't wait for G-Ma and G-Pa Dime to come visit in May to see our life now. It has changed a lot in a year.

Jackson's Tantrum

2009-02-15T07:58:00.001-08:00

Some people think that Jackson is always happy and never fussy- this is clearly not the case. Enjoy :)

Chad and Rian are visiting!

2009-02-15T07:49:00.001-08:00

Our Lives Have Changed

2009-02-07T15:15:00.001-08:00

This time two years ago I was posting pictures of a St. Patrick's Day party at an Irish pub here in Chicago. Now we are cheering and jumping up and down because Jackson is taking those first crawls (inching more like). Our lives have changed, and our reasons for joy have changed, but we are loving every second of it.
Here are two new videos of our life. The first one is Jackson crawling for the first time! We were so excited that I think we scared him- screaming and jumping up and down. The second one is just our life. Sitting around, playing and laughing. I love our life. It's also a peek at Matt's amazing filming skills.
Love to all of you!

Talking Up A Storm

2009-01-19T09:04:00.000-08:00

Jackson is starting to talk- a lot. He calls anything and anyone "Da-Da", and will occassionally say "Ma-Ma" or "Ki-Ki" for Sox. He's becoming much more capable with his motor skills and is constantly trying to "figure out" his toys. He's a bright little boy and we are enjoying watching him develop so nicely.

Happy Birthday Grandma Binkley!

2009-01-11T17:40:00.001-08:00

More Christmas 2008 Pictures

2009-01-11T17:33:00.001-08:00

Christmas

2008-12-28T16:28:00.000-08:00

We are still uploading and trading all of the photos from the past week, but so far we have a few of Christmas Day that I thought I would share with all of you.
Jackson loved opening presents, but not so much because of what was inside the gifts, but rather what they were wrapped in. He loved playing drums on Grandma's new Kitchenaid Mixer box, and even sat inside the box of one of his gifts.
I hope everyone's holidays were wonderful- ours sure were.

Merry Christmas!

2008-12-23T08:25:00.000-08:00

We finally made it into Seattle late Saturday night (more like early Sunday morning... 4:00am early!) and have been soaking up every minute of grandparents time that we can get. We made a quick stop over at the North Pole yesterday so Jackson could give Santa his list.
Have a Merry Christmas!
Love,
Matt, Nicole & Jackson

2008-11-23T16:12:00.000-08:00

Jackson celebrated his 6-month last week and we took him to get some pictures to celebrate. He was all giggles and smiles. The photographer said that he was the most delightful baby she's ever worked with.
Enjoy a few of the many shots.

Election Day!

2008-11-04T15:39:00.000-08:00

I feel very blessed today, to live in America. I was so happy to see many people sticking it out, standing in the long lines, to make their choice and vote today. Way to go America! We live in a great nation.
My friend Joey wrote some amazing words of wisdom about this election on her blog and I must encourage each and every one of you to check it out. It's beautifully written and spoke to my heart. Enjoy!
http://roddy-life.blogspot.com/

2008-11-02T13:01:00.000-08:00

I know it's been awhile since we've posted anything new, but life has been especially crazy lately at the Rife household. I've been busy with report cards, Matt's been busy with work and taking 4 classes towards his degree, and Jackson's been busy getting accustomed to squash, carrots, yams and avocado. He's trying to sit up on his own and slowly looking like he might crawl in the next couple of months. We are enjoying our busy life and spending every minute on the weekends together. Jackson now enjoys his Tummy Time, rather than cry the whole time. One of the mom's of a friend of Matt's from high school sent Jackson this adorable quilt that she made for him! He loves to play on it every day. He is seen here on the flannel side, but the other side has a beautiful design. Jackson is so loved, even by people he hasn't met! We miss Seattle dearly, but look forward to coming home in December. My kid brother officially proposed to his beautiful Annette last week and their wedding is scheduled for the same day as our anniversary! December 27th will be a day to remember every year. Can't wait to be home for the wedding, even though it's always so crazy when we come home.
Lastly, Friday was Halloween. Jackson and I went trick-or-treating with the Judd family and we had a blast. Jackson was the cutest little Jack-son-lantern I've ever seen. I was a flower, since my team at work was a "Kinder-Garden" that day. Here is a picture of me and one of my students at our school costume parade. It was a beautiful and warm Halloween- almost 70 degrees and sunny!
Saturdays Jackson and I go to Matt's soccer games. He has joined a team through the city and plays just for fun. This last weekend was rather chilly and I wrapped Jackson up with a blanket, a coat, a hat, mittens and Daddy's sweatshirt. Never too young to be a paranoid mommy I guess.
I'll try to keep this blog more current in the coming weeks, but no promises :)

2008-10-17T22:39:00.001-07:00

G-Ma and G-Pa visited last week. My dad went home on Monday, but mom got to stay with us through the week. We have had a great time running errands and just oogling over Jackson, our little breathing, smiling and talking blessing. I'll be sure to post more when I have a little more energy. All my love, Nicole :)

Our Big Eater

2008-09-19T07:28:00.000-07:00

Last night was Jackson's first feeding with a spoon! I was a little nervous about whether or not he was ready, but he loved it! He ate a lot more than I thought he would and didn't seem to protest the strange texture and flavor. The last picture is Matt taking him to the bath...
The video is a little grainy and the lighting is bad, but watch if you like. :)

Doing Nothing and Being Amazing

2008-09-16T19:07:00.000-07:00

Here is Jackson doing absolutely nothing but drool and I am entranced with him. Please ignore the corny "Mom-Talk" in the background and enjoy the sweetness of this boy :)

Long Days... Even Longer Nights

2008-09-16T18:22:00.000-07:00

Hello Dear Friends and Family. If I haven't called or emailed lately it's because I'm so dawg-on tired and can barely get through the day with enough clean laundry to change my socks in the morning. Jackson is going through another growth spurt- WHEN DO THESE STOP!?! And so he's up 3-4 times a night again. It's like having a newborn all over again, and I don't really miss that. He's been taking rice cereal before bed and still hungry in the middle of the night. He's getting so big and wearing 6 month size clothing now.
Matt is still working nights, 3:30pm-12:30am up in Great Lakes, which is about an hour from our place in the city. I work exactly the opposite schedule and can't seem to find enough time to do it all. Despite it all, Matt and I are really loving being a mommy and daddy. I asked him the other day, "What did we used to do before Jackson?" :) Now we are easily entertained by watching him for hours. We miss Seattle, especially with all the rain and flooding that's been happening here lately. I miss people knowing what to do with rain- the Midwest gets so confused and closes down every street you can imagine. Driving is rough and that makes everything difficult.
Here are some recent pics of J. We will try to post a video or two tomorrow. For now though, I'm off to bed. Hugs to all!

9-11, Seven Years Later

2008-09-11T18:05:00.001-07:00

This is the my second year teaching Kindergarten where the kids were not alive during the 9-11 terrorists attacks on our country. I maintain that this is an important part of our countries history and each year I take extreme delicate precautions to introduce this peice of history to 5 year olds. I always begin by reading the story, Fireboat to my class and then explaining that this was a real story, and that it really happened. There are always some scared eyes and some confused, but this year I was really touched by the conversation that developed and thought I would share it with you.
"Mrs. Rife- why did those planes fly into those buildings?"
"Because, honey, some men made some bad choices."
"But, why?"
"Because they were angry."
"Who were they angry at?"
"Well, they were angry with America."
"Did they want to hurt us?"
"Yes they did."
"But why didn't they use their words?"
"I wish they'd just use their words to talk."
"Ya- using your words is better."
(this is when my eyes became teary because of the sweetness and sincerity in their voices)
"Were you sad when this happened Mrs. Rife?"
"Yes. I was sad to see so many people hurt and sad, but I touched by seeing America be a family. We looked to help one another after that horrible thing happened. We were nicer drivers and we had kind things to say. I was proud of America on that day."
"Well, I just wish it hadn't happened is all. Hopefully those men will use their words next time."
This was a memorable conversation. Thank you Room 13 for "keepin' it real" for me on this 9-11.

Walking In No Time

2008-09-10T11:29:00.000-07:00

Jackson is starting to really push up when he's doing Tummy Time and I know that he's so close to crawling! I better Baby-Proof the house soon. Sunday he was ready for the Opening Seasoning Game with his Bears jersey on. Seriously- they don't get much cuter than that. He was dressed identical to his daddy too :)

A Glorious Weekend

2008-09-01T18:28:00.000-07:00

I started back to work this wee k and it was a difficult start. Even though I had dropped Jackson off at daycare on and off for the past two weeks, Monday just seemed so "official" with me not being able to just be a mommy anymore. I cried in my car while the rest of the district started the institute day and then went in with red puffy eyes after my dad soothed me over the phone. I never knew I'd love being a mommy so much! The week got easier as the kids arrived and I hit the ground running! I have a wonderful group of kindergarten kiddos- again! and I really love my job- again! It's crazy how much more energy I have this fall since I'm not unexpectantly 6 weeks pregnant :)
Matt had Friday off of work and we both had Monday off, so it was a glorious three-day weekend for the Rife's! We were busy walking and enjoying the weather that is only here for a short bit longer. It was beautiful and 85 degrees all weekend with very little humidity. We were out at the lake and Starbucks and Sunday we made the treck up north to the Botanical Gardens for the day. Jackson is so long now that he sat in the stroller without his infant carrier because his little legs hang over the edge! He looked like such a big boy in his stroller. We packed a picnic and a bottle for Jackson and enjoyed God's creations. It was a marvelous time together and at one point I just hugged Matt with tears in my eyes and couldn't believe how wonderfully happy I felt. Life is so wonderful.
After the gardens we came home and barbecued kabobs and the three of us sat out on the deck together, enjoying the evening weather. We tried to get Sox to come out, but she's quite jumpy with all the city noise and kept to herself inside. We believe Jackson to be going through yet ANOTHER growth spurt, and so he is consuming several oz's of milk a day and sleeping several hours throughout the day- as well as still sleeping through the night with 10-12 hours. I was told not to tell other new parents that :) As the weekend came to an end, we made a trip to the mall together and bought Jackson a tiny pair of Puma tennis shoes. They are so adorable and I told Jackson that he now has better shoes than his mommy and daddy do. We are in big trouble if we keep this up! :)

Can You Spoil a 3 Month Old?

2008-08-25T03:38:00.000-07:00

We were out running errands on Sunday and picked up a few things. We went to Costo and reminised about the days when we lived in a house, with room to store stuff, a garage, etc. By the time we left Costco we almost had to leave Jackson in the lot beacause there was no room for all of the stuff we bought! One of the things we bought was this huge monstrosity (as Dave calls it) for Jackson to play in. He's always trying to stand on us, so we thought he was ready. I still think he's ready, but he just can't reach the ground because he's so short. It's actually quite cute. We propped him up with blankets and a blow up bad and let him at it. He seemed to enjoy himself and we were thrilled.

In the Spirit of the Olympics... Enjoy! :)

2008-08-23T11:38:00.000-07:00

A Very Happy Baby

2008-08-18T18:29:00.000-07:00

I thought you all might enjoy a look into the life of Jackson. He is teething right now and still he is the happiest baby I know. He loves to play in his crib and talk to us. What a precious time.

Beer, Bugs & Boo

2008-08-17T08:05:00.001-07:00

This weekend was the 2nd annual Beer Oympics that Matt and his work crew put together. It is exactly like it sounds. You would think we were back in college playing Beer Pong like it was going out of style :) Matt said that he had been practicing all year to bring home the gold like Michael Phelps. We held the event at John and Marsha's house, which is up north near base. There were huge trees around and I could hear the Cicadas, but they never really come around for anyone to see- right? WRONG-O! Anyone who knows me, knows how much I HATE bugs. Any kind of bug, they scare me to death. I have an absolute panic attack when it comes to insects and arachnids of any type. So, all night I kept swatting at mosquitoes and everything else that was flying around in the Midwest during August (there were a lot of bugs) only to have a CICADA fall down the back of my blouse! (I have included a picture in case you are unaware of how horrible these things are- oh and they're totally harmless) I was screaming and telling Matt that something was in my shirt. It was an empire waste that tied around my middle, so the little bugger was caught in a pocket of material between me and my shirt- AUGH!!!!!!!! I freaked out and darn near got naked trying to get that thing out of my shirt. I told Matt firmly that I would not be attending Beer Olympics next year- UGH.
Then we went and picked up Jackson from our friend Katie & Dan's house where he was sleeping soundly. Matt wanted to wake him up and play with him so bad :) Fortunatley, he listened to the reasonable one and let our little Boo sleep through the night without being interrupted. Later when we crawled into bed I asked what his favorite part of the day was and he said it was when we picked up Jackson. They were the sweetest words a mommy could ever hear- my heart melted. I really love this man.
This morning the three of us woke up and went for a long walk at the beach and got to see the Blue Angels practicing. Jackson only stayed awake long enough to get to Starbucks. It was such a wonderful morning and we felt so blessed.

Back At Work

2008-08-15T19:04:00.000-07:00

Last week I started back at work and Jackson started going to daycare in the mornings. What a transition for all of us! We are so blessed to have found the most wonderful daycare where I know he is safe, loved and taken care of the way that I would take care of him. He never cries when I leave and always welcomes me with a drooling smile when I come to pick him up. I like going to work again- I missed it definitely, but it's so much better now because I get to end the day with my sweet Boo!
We went to the doctor today because he is teething and may have picked up a cold. He was fussy and not full of giggles and smiles today. He was wearing his UW Husky apparel and he looks even more like my dad now! If only he was smiling, they would've been identical. It is official- Jackson is a big boy! He is 15 lbs and 4 oz and 24 inches long. He's come a long way from the little pea he was this time last year. What a year it has been for our family. I still look at Jackson and get tears in my eyes because I know just how blessed we are. I am praying that God never lets me forget how blessed we are, and never take this time for granted. I love being a mommy. It's the best job I've ever had.

G-Ma Dime Visits Chicago

2008-08-02T15:39:00.001-07:00

My mom went back to Seattle on Tuesday, after a wonderful two week visit here in Chicago. I had spent the previous two weeks with her in Seattle, so it had been a month together by the time we said goodbye. The whole time she kept saying how I'd be ready to say goodbye by the end because we'd be sick of one another, but that wasn't the case. We are both still a little teary as we think about how much blessed we were in July. Matt was working during most of her trip out, and so mom and I took Jackson around Chicago on our many errands and also some fun days. We went down to Navy Pier one day, and enjoyed the sun, a cheezeborger, a glass of wine and cinnamon roasted nuts- yummm. We then walked across to the Chicago River and sat to watch the sunset.

Later in the week, Matt took Jackson for the day and Mom and I had a girls day out for the Chicago River Architectural tour. It was incredible weather and we really had a great time.

Then we finished up the visit with an evening out. We went to one of our favorite restaurants, the Broadway Cellar, with Dave and Lauren. The food and company was off the charts!

Visiting

2008-08-02T13:28:00.000-07:00

Matt was only able to stay for a long weekend but I kept Jackson with me and stayed for another two weeks in Seattle last month. I was able to meet up with some of my old students from Mukilteo and share Jackson with them. It was one of the highlights of my trip!

Here are also some pictures of Jackson visiting with some of Matt's family. Matt's aunt Nancy, and Jackson's Great-Aunt came down from Alaska for her yearly visit and it happened to overlap with our trip! Yipee! We love our Nancy Time. Grandma Binkley and her sisters are so alike! It's so much fun with all of them. And Jackson hung out with cousin Angie. She gave him socks that look like cowboy boots- too cute!Jackson's godmother, Kalee. We used to look alike, before I got pregnant and she got tan. Whatev...

Many More "Firsts"

2008-07-14T17:26:00.000-07:00

This past week Jackson has accomplished several more "firsts". As a mommy, I love how he continues to surprise me every day. He had his first visit to Red Robin, where his mommy and daddy's love began :) Grandma Binkley was lovin' on him big time. On July 8th we went and visited Great Mom Sheri and Great Poppy Ron and had lunch at the Club House. It was so beautiful that day and my proud grandparents were eager to show him off to all of their friends.
On July 9th, Jackson took his first ferry ride when we went over to Dabob Bay to stay with Sally for a few days. Even though it was hard for me to agree to two days away, it was much needed and Jackson and I slept most of the time. It was crazy how tired we were! When we weren't sleeping, Jackson was hard at work during "Tummy Time" and pushing his head all the way up on his own- it was beautiful to watch and he was so proud of himself.
On July 12th Jackson had his first trip to Morton's Steakhouse, downtown Seattle. This is a Dime Family tradition and it was great to show him off to the wait staff and show him what a steak truly looks like.
Then, on July 13th Jackson rolled over from his tummy to his back for the first time! You know you're a mommy when you feel like crying over something like that. We were all at Great Nana Barbara & Great Poppy Gary's house and all of us were shouting and cheering for him. It was a joyful event.

Welcome Jackson

2008-07-14T16:48:00.000-07:00

On Saturday, July 5th, my parents threw a "Welcome Jackson" party at their place for my old friends and their friends as well. It was such a treat to see people who I haven't seen in years as well as meet new people that my parents were so proud to show Jackson off to. Matt and I felt very loved and blessed to celebrate with so many people.

*Left: "Great" Nana Barbara & Poppy Gary with Jackson

*Right: Friend from high school, Josh. We hadn't seen one another in 10 years. I can't believe I'm old enough to have friends that I haven't seen in that long!

Who has the most hot air? The guys had a contest to see who could blow up the rubber glove and pop it first. Very mature :)

Josh & his beautiful Annette

My friend, Shanica, from freshman year of college at SPU. She lived down the hall from me and I rollerbladed down the hallway past her room.

Michelle and I have been friends since Kindergarten and manage to stay in touch when I'm back in town.

Uncle Chad is loving on Jackson!

The cake welcoming our little man- it was delicious!

"Great" Mom Sheri & Jackson

Independence Day

2008-07-05T10:11:00.000-07:00

We enjoyed our first full day in Seattle yesterday with a 4th of July party at Grandma & Grandpa Binkley's house. All of Matt's family (well most of them) came out to meet Jackson andcelebrate the 4th. Matt spent much of the day telling people "You're Welcome." and when they asked for what he told them, "For the independence I provide you." :) We shared many laughs and smiles and I was happy to see Jackson doing both of these things. He loves his family and enjoyed meeting most of them for the first time!

Great-Grandma O & Jackson
Jackson took a nap on his Uncle Chad
SMILES! :) Hi Mommy.
Cousin Amber & Jackson
G-Ma, Annette (Josh's better-half), Uncle Josh & Jackson
Auntie Ruth, Uncle Paul & Jackson
New Nike Warm-Ups for Jackson
Oh ya- Jackson is loving the gifts. Time to go.
Jackson loves his Grandma Binkley

A Long Day At O'Hare

2008-07-04T09:45:00.001-07:00

We traveled home to Seattle yesterday. Jackson and I will be staying until July 16th and then my mom (G-Ma Dime) will be coming back with us for two weeks. Matt is only able to come out for the long weekend, but we'll take what we can get! Here is our adventures from yesterday:

Here is Matt with his one suitcase.

Here I am with my one suitcase.

And... here is Jackson with all of his luggage. Are you kidding me!?!?! Matt and I brought our wallets and iPods on the flight, but everything else was for Jackson, and neither one of us even got to use our iPods because we were so exhausted.

Matt and I have been super nervous about flying home to Seattle with Jackson, but he ended up being the least of our worries yesterday. Our flight was scheduled to leave at 3:35pm and continued to get delayed every hour because the airplane had been struck by lightening when coming into Chicago and needed to undergo inspections to make sure it was safe. Always the positive one, I was just grateful that we were going to be safe and that we weren't on the trip when it was hit by lightening. So, after a six-hour delay we were off! What a day. I was overwhelmed with emotion on the plane when I looked over at my sweet husband next to me, who helped SO much with all of the preparation and work it takes to fly with an eight-week old baby, and then I looked down to see my sweet boy sleeping in my arms. I felt so blessed. Life is good.We had dinner at the Chili's in the O'Hare airport. Mommy was more interested in the margarita then the food... :)

Daddy is so tired and Jackson is having none of it- too much to see at the airport!Getting ready to board the plane- finally passed out after being at the airport for 7 hours.

First flight- he did great, and yes, I'm as tired as I look :)

Oh baby! Going to the doctor...

2008-06-30T20:09:00.000-07:00

Jackson turned seven weeks old this week and we noticed a huge change in his sleeping and eating and just about everything else. People told me to watch for that sixth-week growth spurt, but it was still tough. He wanted to eat every hour and a half and eat a lot! It was like having a newborn all over again. Then when six and a half weeks hit he changed over night! He is sleeping through the night now (something we can only praise Jesus for!) and eating every 3-4 hours. When we went in for his check-up with the doctor on Friday he weighed in at 12 lbs and 22 inches. He's gained 5 lbs since we left the hospital and he's grown 2 inches! I love watching him grow, and lately he's been looking for me or watching me go out of the room and talking and smiling to me ("talking" = cooing:) I am enjoying him so much and can't wait to bring him home on Thursday to meet the Seattle gang.Jackson also had his first chiropractic adjustment last week. He was great and didn't even cry- even though it was all new and maybe scary to him. Luckily he's very familiar with Dr. Cole and how kind she is.

The Clark Family Visits!

2008-06-29T16:19:00.000-07:00

The Clark Family visited us from Indiana this weekend and we had so much fun! It's nice to have another baby around for Jackson to hang out with and he was definitely into his new friend Jazmin.
Jaedin was our little "Toothless Wonder" and what a big help! He helped push Jackson in his HUGE stroller when we went for a walk on the beach.
Here he is after eating his blue ice cream treat- luckily it matches his shirt because he's wearing it all over his face like a pro'!
Jackson is ready for our walk! It was 85 degrees and sunny that day so he needed to wear his hat.We also went to the annual "Taste of Chicago". Here is Matt with Jackson for his first "Taste". It is our 3rd Taste since moving to Chicago.

Kim and Jaedin are tastin' up a storm with the corn on the cob- yummmmmm...It was a busy and blessed weekend.

Love,
Nicole, Matt & Jackson

Who Knew?

2008-06-23T21:12:00.000-07:00

Who knew that I would someday believe more strongly (or at least hope for) the power of prayer because of a crying (a.k.a. screaming) baby so badly in need of sleep? Who knew that I loved my sleep so much and I would miss it more than food? Who knew that my daily choices would come down to sleep, shower or eat? and that sleep would always win. Who knew that I could go hours with only one eye done with makeup before having enough time to look at myself in the mirror, only to see that the "done" eye had smudged all over my face so that I looked like Mike Tyson after a match? Who knew that I could fall more in love with a man I've known almost ten years and thought I knew so well already? Who knew that my husband would hold and speak so gently with our son that my heart would melt every time? Who knew life could be so wonderful?

Growing so fast!

2008-06-18T21:51:00.001-07:00

Jackson is beginning to smile. I tried to record his first couple of smiles and then the camera died (love that modern technology) but I got part of it.

Hiccups

2008-06-12T15:24:00.001-07:00

Stephen and Alisha posted their sweet little Olivia when she got hiccups and I am now following their lead. Enjoy!

Boys Will Be Boys

2008-06-12T06:18:00.000-07:00

Even at 5 weeks old, boys seem to get dirty without even blinking! We have been taking lots of baths lately, and luckily it really calms Jackson down before bedtime. He has a new bathrobe that turns him into the cutest little duck in all of Chicago. The other picture of him in a blue towel was when we were almost ready for bed and he peed all over everything (and everyONE) during his last diaper change for the night. If it hadn't been in his hair... :) Either way- 5 weeks looks good on the little guy. He's aging well.

What We've Been Up To

2008-06-08T16:07:00.000-07:00

Here is a picture of my two favorite boys doing what they do best. We are definitely on Jackson's schedule and sleep when we can. I think they're both priceless.

The picture on the right is when I told Jackson that Obama had been officially nominated as the Democratic candidate for president. He was so excited! "Obama '08!"

Even though this isn't a good shot of Jackson, you can see just how big Sox is and how little he is. She is at least 2 lbs heavier than he is, and definitely not as good of a snuggler :) We went to our one month check-up on Friday and Jackson has grown 2 inches and gained 2 lbs and 7 oz. He is now 21.5 inches long and 9 lbs 6 oz.

Baby Gifts in 2008

2008-06-08T13:41:00.000-07:00

Baby gifts are so creative nowadays! Check out this latest gift- it's called "A Bunch of Baby Clothes" and it comes displayed as a bouquet of flowers, but the rose buds are actually 100% Organic baby clothes rolled tightly. The only problem now is that I don't want to do undo it and actually use the items! Cute, huh?

Jackson received this little set of overalls the other day. I was so worried that he wouldn't fit into them since they are size "newborn" and he's quickly outgrowing those, but he's good to go for another week or so. Isn't he adorable? :)

So Many Changes...

2008-06-04T12:52:00.000-07:00

Jackson hit three weeks on Friday and I can see the differences already. He is staying awake longer during the day and sleeping a little bit longer during the night. The most exciting part for me to see is his new interest in everything as his eyesight is developing. He's been playing with his floor toys and one of them has a mirror that hangs from it and he will stare at his reflection for 30-45 minutes. I am loving watching this little guy grow- he is such a blessing. I know that he will be smiling in no time, and it might be more than just gas!Looking at himself in the mirror. :)

Kickin' those legs!

I'm so glad I caught this yawn! Adorable...

2008-05-30T11:13:00.000-07:00

Jackson's Auntie Bethus gave him this shirt which says "Somebody in Detroit Loves Me". I thought it appropriate to put him in since Bethany and the love of her life are engaged! Congrats Josh and B!!!!!!!

Newborn no more

2008-05-29T14:35:00.000-07:00

Jackson is quickly outgrowing his size "newborn" clothes. Makes me sad- like it's happening so fast! He will be 3 weeks old tomorrow and I can easily say this has been the best three weeks of my life. Matt is back to work and Jackson and I are getting used to being together all the time. I daresay we like one another quite a bit. :)

Slideshow: Just a Taste of Our World

2008-05-27T13:41:00.001-07:00

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The First of Many

2008-05-24T18:37:00.000-07:00

We had such a busy day today, and I think that Mommy is more exhausted than Jackson from all of the "firsts" we encountered. We gave Jackson his first bath (just a sponge bath for now, but he wasn't a huge fan), and then we clipped his tiny, but ever growing and razor sharp finger nails. Afterwards we had a tough workout of "Tummy Time" where Jackson is learning to use his neck muscles to pull his head up, and then we had a night out for dinner. His first dinner out and his first Chicago style pizza experience. It's funny to think that 16 days ago I might have thought this to be an uneventful day. The past two weeks have changed my perspective and I am seeing the blessings in all of the little things life has to offer.

Bath Time

"Tummy Time"

First Dinner Out

One Trendy Baby!

2008-05-21T16:43:00.000-07:00

This week Matt's mom and step-dad are visiting from Seattle and it is such a treat! Of course they are so in love with little Jackson and just can't get enough of him, (I know the feeling:). Matt had to go up to base this morning, so the grandparents and I decided to break in the stroller and take Jackson to his first Starbucks outing! He was so trendy in his hoppin' stroller and sitting in the hottest coffee spot in all of Edgewater (our Chicago neighborhood). I told him all about how people hang out at Starbucks for more than just the amazing aroma and good drinks and he was excited to hang out with the locals. I was just happy to have introduced another part of our life to my favorite little man.

Life Is Good

2008-05-17T14:49:00.000-07:00

This has been such a wonderful week for our family. Matt and I are learning how to do so much on such little sleep :) and Jackson is learning how to live outside of me and in the world. We were able to have our first outing to Starbucks & Target and I was so happy to get out of the house. I was a little nervous about the stairs, but I continue to heal and make great progress. Yeah! We got to Target and Jackson was sound asleep so we put him in the shopping cart and got ready to pick up a few things when it hit us both like a brick wall- Jackson had made the smelliest poopie ever! We were so embaressed, and yet we couldn't stop laughing as we carted our stinky child throughout the store. I assured Matt that no one would know it was us because Jackson was far too little and cute for anyone to think that he could've made that! Awww... parenting at it's best.

1 week

2008-05-16T05:06:00.000-07:00

Seriously- can this be my life? i am so content and blessed. Today we celebrate Jackson being 1 week old and Daddy Matt is 28 years old.

Joy

2008-05-14T16:47:00.000-07:00

We are slowly settling into life at our home. We are a little sleepy, but never have we been so filled with absolute joy. It seems as if Jackson is changing so much every day! It's unbelievable how much he looks more and more like a little man, and more and more like his handsome Daddy. He started to laugh while dreaming today- what a treat to watch! I still cannot believe that there was a time when he was not a part of our family. He makes us so complete and we are so touched by everything he does. Matt has to go back to work next week, and even though he has received far more time off for paternity leave than any other new daddy's I know, he is already sad. He wishes he could just stay home and see all the new things that "Baby J" (his nickname for our little peanut) manages to accomplish daily. Life is precious. G-Pa Dime leaves to go home tomorrow and we are all sad to see him go. This is a picture of Jackson and his Grandpa.

Blessings Abound

2008-05-11T18:48:00.000-07:00

This has been the best Mother's Day I've ever experienced. We have been SO blessed. I told my dad and Matt that I hope I wasn't making people nauteous with all my "happy talk" but I seriously cannot believe this is my life right now. I will try and keep the blog as current as possible between the many feedings (we are soon to break that 7 lb marker!) so that you all can share in the joys that God is granting us.

Love to all!

~Nicole, Matt & Jackson

G-Pa Dime and Jackson: Doing What They Do Best

Auntie Lauren & Uncle Dave came to visit. They always keep the party going. I was laughing so hard I had to hold my stitches- literally!

Not the best shot, but one with his cute little "button eyes" open.

We're both sleepy :) He's precious.

Jackson Thomas Rife

2008-05-10T16:59:00.001-07:00

Born, Friday, May 9th at 3:50pm
7 lbs & 10 oz - 20 inches long

Happy Mother's Day Eve. We are so blessed to know that we will be celebrating this very special day tomorrow with our little boy- Jackson Thomas Rife. Many of you heard about the long ordeal this past week, but I look back now and think how worth it, it all was. We came in Tuesday night ready to be induced. My doctor felt it necessary, due to my swelling, constant blood pressure going up and a headache for three weeks straight. We were eager and excited, and a little bit nervous, but nothing prepared us for what was about to happen. By Friday morning they had given me two doses of medication to help me dilate, and I had been on petocin for more than 24 hours as well. I was only slightly dilated, and not showing any signs of picking up. On top of that, Jackson's heart rate was dropping slightly every time I got up to use the washroom or sit up for a bit- we were frightened for him and growing very fatigued. We were given the choice of either going home and coming back when my body went into labor itself, or we could opt for a c-section. We had been so adamant against a c-section before this, but after three and a half days of medication, nausea & vomiting, contractions and not being allowed to eat or drink anything the entire time- there was no way I wanted to go home without that baby boy in my arms. We reluctantly, and tearfully, chose to go through with the c-section and the doctor's quickly got ready for the surgery. I was so scared! Anyone who knows me, knows that I do not tolerate a pinprick of a needle, let alone a huge one in my spine as well as being cut open. This is a very serious abdominal surgery! I went into the O.R. sobbing, trying so hard to keep it together, but all I could think about was the fact that I was going to be cut open in a few minutes. After I was numb from the waist down and the curtain was up, Matt was escorted in and stood next to me, holding my hand. I looked up to see that he was crying, right when I had stopped. He thanked me for having the baby and for everything up until this point. It was the sweetest moment of my life. Then it was all over before I knew it had really started. I had a rough surgery, most likely because I hadn't eaten for three days and was already feeling nauseous, and I was violently ill for most of the c-section. When Jackson was out they kept trying to get me to look at him but I couldn't stop getting sick long enough to enjoy the moment. Matt and my dad rushed to the nursery to be with Jackson and the doctor's continued to sew me up and finish the surgery. I was then taken to recovery and I had to wait TWO HOURS before they would let me see Jackson! It was the longest two hours of my life. As soon as they brought him to me I started smiling this huge grin that only God can grant- and I haven't stopped smiling since. The past couple of days have been the most amazing days of my life. I'm happy to share it with all of you!

Jackson's heart rate had dropped and I had to be on oxygen for a bit.

Me with Dad: Right before going in for surgery

1st Picture of Daddy with Baby Jackson.

G-Pa Dime with Baby Jackson.

Finally- they let me be with my son!

Visitors This Week

2008-05-05T16:33:00.000-07:00

Anyone in the Chicago area is more than welcomed to stop by the 4th Floor at St. Joseph's Hospital this week after Jackson is born. Just call Matt's cell phone to make sure I'm awake and we're able to take visitors. We can't wait to share this little bundle with everyone!
Love,
Nicole & Matt

St. Joseph's Hospital
2900 N. Lakeshore Drive
Hospital Number: 773-665-3000
http://www.reshealth.org/sub_sjh/default.cfm

There's No Maybe- He'll Be a "May Baby"

2008-05-04T05:28:00.000-07:00

All those hopes of Jackson making an early appearance and having an April birthday, slowly slipped away on Thursday when the month changed to May. Where most women stop or at least greatly slow down on weight gain in this last month, I have managed to increase 3-5 lbs a week now, and it is almost all water. Matt continues to stare at my ever growing toes and feet and say, "The human body is just amazing!" So, with my continued water weight, three-week long migraine and now the ever creeping blood pressure, my doctor has decided to induce on Tuesday night. We are excited to see the light at the end of the tunnel, but a little nervous because it can take 3 or 4 days to be induced sometimes. The nurses told us that often an induction will be scheduled and then baby will come right before on his own- nature is funny, huh?
On another note- we spent 24 hours being monitored in the hospital Thursday-Friday night because I tripped at the gas station. A slight miscalculation of my own weight and the height of the gas hose between my car and the machine- oh fine- I had major "Baby Brain" and tried to jump over the darn thing. I landed with one leg on the ground, but unfortunately, my stomach smashed into my leg so they were worried about Jackson. I missed my last day at work and didn't get a chance to say goodbye to my kids, and Matt had to leave work to be with me at the hospital. As one friend has said, "You just like the excitement, huh?" No kidding.

Time to Go Baby

2008-04-28T02:27:00.001-07:00

Cute Little Nose

2008-04-27T04:02:00.000-07:00

We had a very thorough ultrasound at the hospital yesterday to determine ("guestimate) Jackson's weight for the delivery. The technician had been working a long and hard shift and it had just calmed down so she decided to have fun with our ultrasound! She took her time and showed us SO much about Baby Jackson. We walked out with 6 pictures of him. This is one of my favorite pictures because you can see his lips and nose- she said he had a cute nose. I thought he looked like he was crying- can babies cry inside the womb? She also told us that there were some areas where we had less than 3 centimeters of skin (my skin) between him and us, which makes sense why I can feel his little foot and butt so well right now.
So- the countdown is still on. I'm so excited to meet this little guy, and I'm so excited to have my body back eventually. It has been a very hard week between my swollen feet, aching legs and pounding headache. And my mom keeps telling me that this is the easiest part of parenting :)

Mommy Car

2008-04-21T19:41:00.000-07:00

This weekend we installed the infant carrier and car seat in my car. When we found out that we were pregnant, we promptly sold Matt's truck and purchased an small SUV for me to use in the city and we jokingly calling it the "Mommy Car". I think it's official though- the "Mommy Car" has arrived.

Hopefully Less Than 22 Days To Go!!!!

2008-04-16T14:48:00.000-07:00

This ticker updates itself daily- cool, huh? Gotta love modern technology!

36 Weeks

2008-04-15T19:29:00.000-07:00

For the past couple of days I find myself saying, "I just want to be done", or "I want this kid out of me now", etc. People keep saying, "Just wait one more week so he's fully developed"- like I have a say in when he's coming anyways! So- here is Jackson at 36 weeks and 2 days. He's trying to cover his face with his arm again :) and his eyes are closed. The doctor said he had a big nose- TWO TIMES and I almost punched him in the head. We'll be requesting a different doctor next time- maybe someone who appreciates Jackson's handsome face.

My Big Fat Greek Baby Shower

2008-04-14T16:03:00.001-07:00

The past two years I have had the opportunity to see what real culture truly is. It's so refreshing to see that people do keep culture and heritage a part of their families and traditions. Chicago is full of diversity and people who are proud of who they are.
This past weekend I went to a baby shower for a friend of mine who is Greek. She's not the kind of Greek that people are in Seattle where they mention it, but rather she wears it on her sleeve. Her family all speaks Greek. They attend a Greek Orthodox church, and everyone is named, Nicki, Nico, George, Georgina or Gina.
So- she invited me to her baby shower and it was held at her family's Greek restaurant (I'm not kidding- just like the movie!) Everyone knew everyone and if by chance they werent' related, they had attended Greek school together as kids. It was the funnest shower!
So I got to thinking- what is my culture? What sort of heritage or traditions am I going to be sending down to Jackson, besides the occasional Sunday meal at O.C.B. (Old Country Buffet) with my family? Will I make meals that make him feel comforted? Will I have an accent that only he will hear? Will Matt and I share with him things that are special to us? Will they be special to him? So- that's what I've been thinking about the past couple of days. Jackson will be here soon (Lord willing) and I can't wait to show him what I cherish so much about life.

Pregnancy Profile

2008-04-12T17:52:00.001-07:00

Bethus calls this the "perfect pregnancy pose". I think it's fair to say that I'm carrying this baby in front- he's sticking straight out! We are continuing to get ready and countdown for Baby Jackson. We are both very excited to meet him!

:)

2008-04-07T19:55:00.001-07:00

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Who's Hungry for Hot Dogs?

2008-04-03T15:52:00.001-07:00

Little Vienna Beef hot dogs to be precise, because that's what my once cute little toes look like now! I went to the doctor today and learned that I gained 5 lbs this week, almost all in water. Ohmigosh- I think that's only good if you have fins and gills! I can't make a fist with my swollen string cheese fingers and I can barely get my shoes tied because my tree-stump legs don't bend too good anymore. Some of you are emailing, saying I look good for 9 months pregnant, but I haven't posted a new picture in awhile for a reason. So- for those of you who don't see me on a regular basis, here is proof of just how big a 5'1" woman can get when incubating a small linebacker.

I am all about the sneaker shoes right now....

....and from the side.

Matt and I each picked out a "first outfit" for Jackson :)

One Hot Mama!

2008-03-31T19:15:00.000-07:00

So, we were walking to the car the other night and Matt said to me, "You're hot babe. I'm sure it's because you're carrying the baby and all." I was so touched and told him so. He looked at me confused and said, "No, I mean in a body temperature way- you are actually hot all the time." I didn't have my coat zipped up, but it was almost snowing. O.K... romance killed. :)

City vs. Suburb Perspective

2008-03-24T19:49:00.000-07:00

Matt and I have been hard at work outfitting the nursery and getting ready for Baby Jackson for the past couple of months. We are working hard at cutting corners and keeping costs at a minimum so I've been scouring Craigslist for all the deals I can find. Baby stuff is typically only used for a short time so you can get relatively new items for a fraction of the price. So, Friday we spent the day driving around the suburbs picking up baby supplies. We started the morning off in North Riverside, about 40 minutes from our condo in the suburbs. Right when we were pulling off the freeway Matt got a call that his work was closing for the day due to the 9 inches of snow we were getting in the middle of March (gotta love the Midwest), and because he's one of the supervisors, he had a lot of people to contact and let know of the change. So we pulled into a parking spot right off the main road so that he could start making the calls. I noticed a large dumpster next to our car so I thought I would throw away some wrapping paper from a gift that I had received in the mail that morning and my Starbucks cup. I was two steps out of the car when I heard an angry voice yell at me to get back in the car. I looked around and saw an old man hiding behind some bushes/shrubs/trees and I said, "I'm sorry sir?" because I thought I misheard him. He growled at me again to get back in the car and get away from the dumpster. I jumped in the car with wrapping paper and cup still in hand and told Matt that I thought the guy was going to shoot us. Matt rolled his window down and asked if there was a problem but the old guy just yelled for us to stay in the car. We both looked at each other and shrugged. Matt assured me that he only had a few more calls to make and then we would leave. We were there for 10 minutes when three separate police cars showed up. The old man had called the cops on us for an illegal dumping!!!!!!! When the officer approached our vehicle, he asked if we were the reason for him coming out. "I don't think so..." Matt said, because obviously three seperate policemen were not needed for this, but they spoke to the crazy old coot and he said we were making an illegal dumping! I told the officer that I thought it was a public dumpster and that nothing was put in it after I was yelled at. The old man still went over to look in the dumpster to see if anything had been deposited. Are you kidding me?!?! We apologized to the officer for the misunderstanding and drove away. As we drove off I said to Matt, "That man would save so many tax dollars by just purchasing cable and giving himself something to do." I am so glad that we live in the city where we call the police for gang violence, gun shots and drugs. We don't have time for that petty stuff. Still, the event made me laugh.

The Nursery

2008-03-15T05:33:00.001-07:00

Matt spent every last second last weekend getting the nursery ready. I know that we still have 8 weeks to go, but anyone who knows me, knows that I like to be prepared. Sox and I have been spending a lot of time in the nursery, just relaxing and getting ready for Baby Jackson. I think she knows that a big change is coming. I love the Chicago Bears mobile- it is priceless!

Jackson Showed His Stuff!!!!

2008-03-04T09:40:00.000-08:00

We had to go to the birthing center at the hospital this morning for more pre-term contractions. While that part wasn't fun and a little scary, what was great was when they had to do an ultrasound and I asked if they could try and see if the baby is a boy or a girl. We got a clear shot of his "stuff" and there is no mistaking this little guy- he's his daddy's boy through and through! :) Matt started smiling and I started crying. Then they showed us his beautiful little face (seen in the picture on the left) and then I really couldn't stop crying. So- blue it is! We are glad that the "Pee-Pee Tee-Pees" Uncle Dave bought are going to be put to good use :) No wee-sprinkling in this mama's face!

Two Ships Passing In the Night

2008-03-03T15:21:00.000-08:00

Things have been very busy for the Rife's in Chicago lately. We certainly feel like two ships passing in the night now that Matt has started working 3:30pm-12:30am Monday-Friday. We pretty much see one another on the weekends, but we are making the best of it- TEAM RIFE! I usually wake up and watch TV with him for a bit around 1:30am when he gets home and he's been getting up to get my car in the morning so that we can say hello and goodbye (kisses!) It's been rough, don't get me wrong, but we have managed to make it better than I thought it was going to be. God is good.
A couple of weeks ago we had a little scare when I had pre-term contractions and had to go to the hospital. While it hadn't gotten to the point where it was pre-term labor, it was still a little frightening. Apparently I had worked too hard and too much that week (it was conferences week at school) and I was dehydrated. Every thing's fine now, but I had to tell my principal that I can't stay late after work anymore because I have to get home and get my feet up. She was very understanding, and I think I was more upset about it than she was. Our enrollment is projected to be down for next year so we are looking at possibly cutting a teacher or two and I'm the low man on the totem pole- again. So, I'm back keeping my eyes out for another job just in case. I'm just praying for a miracle- I really love this job and don't want to go anywhere. This has been a great year of teaching for me.
I have to go to the doctor every two weeks now to check the baby's heart rate, etc. I had read that at this point in the pregnancy I should be monitoring the baby's movements twice a day, to make sure there were 14 movements in a two hour period. So, I asked the doctor if I should be monitoring now and she laughed. "With that baby? Wouldn't you lose count?" she asked :) We have a very active baby. Last time I actually counted it was 14 times in 10 minutes, so I'm just not that worried. Apparently the baby already has mom's energy and vigor. Hopefully he or she will have Dad's patience and good looks!
Apparently the weather's been cold in Chicago this winter- I hadn't noticed. I have been cold every day of my life for as long as I can remember, and now pregnancy has brought on a whole new outlook on life. I have been SO hot this winter. Our neighbors downstairs are elderly and keep their heat very high, so Matt and I have the windows open and a $17 gas bill. I'm sure he's a lot more comfortable now that I'm pregnant because I always keep the place so hot!
I think that's all for now. I hope everyone's well. We miss everyone in Seattle- come visit!!!

Yellow Makes Babies Look Weak

2008-02-08T03:31:00.000-08:00

Well- I guess we'll all be surprised in May! I thought this baby was enough of a surprise in the first place, but the doctor told us yesterday that he/she just won't cooperate and the umbilical cord is still going right through the legs. OK- God is teaching us patience. Only three more months (and some days) and then we'll all know for sure. As soon as I'm up after having the baby I plan on going to the store and buying pink or blue outfits galore! For now- I think green or orange are OK, but yellow makes any baby look weak :) Baby Rife is anything but weak.

Pink or Blue?

2008-01-26T04:58:00.000-08:00

Good thing the room is turquoise and it was going to be that color regardless if it was a boy or a girl. The doctor told Matt and I on Thursday that now they don't know if we're having a boy or a girl and the baby is getting so big that if they can't tell in two weeks then we will all know together at birth! It's 2008, not 1908- if you want to know, you should be able to know! :) I just think this whole thing is hilarious and another testimony of God being in control; not doctors, not me, not Matt, not my overly excited mother who wants me to fly home to Seattle to have a different ultrasound done- this little one is in God's hands. So when people ask what I'm having, my response has been different lately, "A baby!"

6 months

2008-01-21T06:07:00.000-08:00

I don't know why people say that pregnancy is 9 months, because it is 40 weeks, which sure sounds like 10 months to me. Anyways, we've made it more than half-way now- hello six months! :) Does that mean we're in our last trimester? I really don't know... All I know is that my belly is getting bigger and bigger everyday. We are definitely having a healthy big boy! My balance and equilibrium are so off right now thatI even fell in the parking lot at Dominicks... TWICE! The first time I slipped on some ice. The second time it was all me- no ice in sight. So, if I didn't feel foolish enough waddling around like a penguin, falling flat on my face and having Matt rushing over to me (why wasn't he already holding my hand again?:) sure was a high point in the third trimester. So- I've included some pictures of my every growing bump, and it's called "Pregnancy Head" folks (when you're face gets fat and looks different during pregnancy) so don't be hatin' just because you're jealous.

There's a Gymnast In There!

2008-01-09T07:20:00.001-08:00

Well, it was bound to happen, and we've been waiting for it, but finally on Sunday night Matt was able to feel Baby Jackson move around! I've been feeling something for the past couple of months, but nothing like the gymnast that abounded on Sunday night. He's been consistent since then and we are both enjoying another first of pregnancy. It sure makes it a lot more real to feel that little guy kicking and doing flips. I still forget that he's in me and that I'm pregnant, until I walk by a mirror- YIKES!

The Nursery Has Been Started!

2008-01-02T12:56:00.000-08:00

While I love being pregnant, I am having a hard time slowing down and allowing the limitations that pregnancy has put upon my body. I wanted the nursery to get started during Winter Break and I thought that I could get in there and paint up a storm, put the furniture together, etc., as I've always been able to do. I did about a foot of trim before I was out of breath and "Uncle Dave" (the Godfather) sent me out of the paint-fumed room (I asked the guy at the hardware store and he said I would be OK!) I spent the day shredding and filing paperwork in the den while Matt and Dave painted and put together furniture for the new room. It isn't finished since we don't have the crib or anything yet, but we'll get there. We are really pleased with the results and I find myself sitting in the middle of the room with Sox, just enjoying the happy new place in our home. Four and a half months to go and our home is starting to look ready for Baby Jackson. I just can't wait to meet him! He's been so active lately, I feel like I know him already. We are hoping that Matt can start to feel the kicks soon as well.

Getting ready to be a dad- thanks Papa Rife.

Thank you Uncle Dave!

Well, it's a start! Changing table and wardrobes.

We have already hung the little Urlacher jersey/onesie- Jackson's sure to love Chicago sports.

...and lastly, the adorable new curtains. I love this room.

Winter with the Rifes

2008-01-02T12:26:00.000-08:00

Well, someone mentioned that we should start up on a family blog since we are getting ready for the most exciting time of our life. We are expecting Baby Jackson in May, and as of now our due date is still May 11th.
This was a fun winter for us! We were able to go home to Seattle and visit with everyone for Christmas this year. It was especially eventful since G-Pa Dime celebrated his 50th- good thing we're finally giving him a grandchild :)
It was a really fun visit home, although too short as always. We really made an effort to keep it low key and spend a lot of time with our parents and brothers. It was one of the most enjoyable Holiday Seasons we've had.

Almost 10 years now and still kissin'.

Getting ready for G-Pa Dime's 50th.

Grandpa & Grandma Binkley with Matt & Nicole

Matt & Chad

G-Ma & G-Pa Dime

Saying goodbye at the airport- Mom, Nikah & Josh.